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Sharing My theory
« on: February 17, 2009, 11:36:38 AM »
Hi, just popping back in to share something, I realize it's been a long time.

After thinking for a very very very very very long time about this.

But before I start let me share the acronym:

At age 4 success is not peeing in your pants.
At age 12 success is having friends.
At age 16 success is having a drivers license.
At age 20 success is having sex.
At age 35 success is having money.
At age 50 success is having money.
At age 60 success is having sex.
At age 70 success is having a drivers license.
At age 75 success is having friends.
At age 80 success is not peeing in your pants


With that done, alternative one could use the 12 Qi Phases:

                                        HS1   HS2   HS3   HS4   HS5   HS6   HS7   HS8   HS9   HS10
长生   chang shēng   Birth   EB12   EB7   EB3   EB10   EB3   EB10   EB6   EB1   EB9   EB4
沐浴   mu yu      Bath   EB1   EB6   EB4   EB9   EB4   EB9   EB7   EB12   EB10   EB3
冠带   guan dai           Attire   EB2   EB5   EB5   EB8   EB5   EB8   EB8   EB11   EB11   EB2
临官   lin guān    Coming of Age   EB3   EB4   EB6   EB7   EB6   EB7   EB9   EB10   EB12   EB1
帝旺   di wang        Prosperity Peak   EB4   EB3   EB7   EB6   EB7   EB6   EB10   EB9   EB1   EB12
衰   shuāi                   Aging   EB5   EB2   EB8   EB5   EB8   EB5   EB11   EB8   EB2   EB11
病   bing                   Sickness   EB6   EB1   EB9   EB4   EB9   EB4   EB12   EB7   EB3   EB10
死   sǐ                   Death   EB7   EB12   EB10   EB3   EB10   EB3   EB1   EB6   EB4   EB9
墓   mu                   Tomb   EB8   EB11   EB11   EB2   EB11   EB2   EB2   EB5   EB5   EB8
绝   jue                   Repose   EB9   EB10   EB12   EB1   EB12   EB1   EB3   EB4   EB6   EB7
胎   tāi                   Womb   EB10   EB9   EB1   EB12   EB1   EB12   EB4   EB3   EB7   EB6
养   yǎng                   Gestation   EB11   EB8   EB2   EB11   EB2   EB11   EB5   EB2   EB8   EB5


Ok, so the table is kind of messed up, but whatever. Tried copying and pasting, but it was good from from Meek's post, except copying and pasting it screwed it up.

Anyways before coming here I researched a lot on narcissism.

Because my life has been steadily getting worse despite Bazi, I'd like to share a theory for all middle-aged, excessive resource people.

To be absolutely clear, no narcissists are famous, and the notion that narcissists are famous people is false or that famous people are narcissists is also false.

Saddam Hussein was not a narcissist or self-centered from his Bazi, he simply lived in a cruel world. His Bazi was an actual Qi Sha situation:

Yi    Jia    Ding
You Chen Chou

Either Chou or Chen combine to make more Sha, since he is weak naturally instead of Pian Guan it is Qi Sha, no Shang Guan to control, no resource, apparently no self-centered.

So he is cruel.

There are some exceptions of this rule like Omarosa, or Jeff Conaway, or Omar Epps, Todd Duffey, Ashley Eckstein, Adam Busch, Christina Applegate, Gabriel Macht, Glenn Close and possibly Jimmi Simpson.

There are others, but these charts are mostly due to chart types from the 18 External Types for fame, determining fame with just element reading is useless and impossible, must see the chart types.

But the type of narcissist I'm talking about is the one that never becomes famous but always wants to, has a rather unstable life history but always seems to be taken care of by other people, rarely accomplishes anything, dependent on other etc.

Basically I'm talking about the type that Sam Vaknin talks about, this excludes Hitler or Saddam Hussein.

Now since I fall into this category and this all makes sense, such as Narcissists never produce but suck other people dry (resources), or never have any accomplishments or create anything (art, kids, family, home, output) etc.

I conclude, also because of the self-centeredness strength factor that narcissists are simply people who have many resources and are strong, although possibly might include bi jian people who are strong.

Includes some people from the cast of House, like Jesse Spencer, or some other people, (cruel people, this is another note, have roots in the branches, like same elements hidden deep in the branches, like hitler or saddam hussein or stalin or marx or whatever, often tomb qi roots) Christian Bale, Heath Ledger etc.

The point is I'm here to give some hop, basically narcissism is exacerbated with age, but I technically think this is wrong.

I have always thought: "Strong in young and then gets weak as older" so technically the strong person gets happier with age, but so far for me, this has not proven true at all. Especially for me, as life has been steadily getting worse.

Before I subscribed to the theory that one is his or her self-element and gradually becomes output thus becoming happier.

Wrong, and my life is a test, this is false.

Actually the five elements are like this:

^ ^ ^ ^ ^
Fire Earth etc.

They peek around the middle.

Why is summer hottest int he middle? Why is the middle of the fight the most dangerous? Why are adults adultcentric? Why do adults or middle-aged people desire to output?

One peaks in his strength in the middle age, just as some people say narcissism or self-centeredness/ strength peaks around the middle age and fades away.

The reason people think age just exacerbates it is because no one survives, they either commit suicide or fail to live all the way through in some kind of horrible accident or weird thing. I actually tried to commit suicide the other day.

Middle aged people or people in their prime or adults have Shen Wang, or their body is strong, they desire output because they are strong.


Children and old people are dependent, they desire resources, because the body is weak. People falsely think children are strong or narcissistic, false, adults are, they project their narcissism onto children, because they think children are not considerate enough.

It is true that one's body is strongest in the middle age or prime, but rather weak in childhood or old age.

Contrary to popular belief the N (narcissist) or strong person is NOT miserable in young childhood because he is WEAK.

The Five pointed star, the classic drawing of a star basically is actually an accurate representation of the Wu Xing circle.

It is true when they say the N ages prematurely but also is forever a childhood. An N is never an adult.

An N is forever the child or the old man, but always cites his or her childhood as the happiest, why? Because he has never experience the old age strength downfall of happiness, and most likely dies in the middle ages.

Remember it not ridiculous for a child to act bratty, because this is what is expected of him, they are loud, expressive, why?, as a child

Look at this mountain ^ .

As a child the DM is not yet differentiated (let's say this is an N) from the resource element from which they come, thy are actually not like a DM with a lot of resources which is really bratty.

More like, the previous element which produces them, they are still one with their mother. Which is why it is normal for them to act this way.

Either way they are weak, as the mountain shows ^ childhood is good, because they are dependent (or they can shine in this state) as their body is weak.

But as the DM penetrates and differentiates itself from it's resources, the N is seen to absolutely horrid in middle age because he is simply a brat, in a man's body, this is out of place.

In Bazi or the Wu Xing star this is shown as the DM and his resources, the brattiness (resource strength is the strongest) in plain sight.

Whereas before it was more like the DM AS his resources and the resource bi jians, plus the body was weak.

Plus in middle age a man is supposed to be strong, sex hungry (need cai to weaken), fame hungry (need sha to weaken, self centered (bi jian), creative and productive (output), capable of taking care of themselves (strong).

As a child or old man, since body is weak, it is acceptable for them to be taken care of and to not want to do anything.

The Narcissist is forever the prematurely aged OLD MAN AND the CHILD. But only knows his forever waning happiness form childhood as he grows older into the middle age, interpreting it as life just gets worse as he gets older.

False.

Old age will bring happiness again, the N always gets the last laugh, as he or she always wanted.

So there's my hope for you.


There was always the theory that one just gets stronger and stronger as one gets older and that's why Ns get miserable as they get older (at least into middle age), but that's false.

Ns miserable peaks around the middle age but fades into old age, right down to how happy they were in childhood, people condescend old people.




Now there is the gender theory, I always wondered whether woman or man was:

eat and destroy (resource and cai)

or pressure and produce (sha and output)

bi jian is the x element whichever gender can have it.


But if men have eat and destroy (resource and cai) then it explains VERY WELL why men are the most miserable in their 20s mainly because of lackluster sex lives (too strong body to get women) and unfulfilled dreams (strangled output). 20s is the prime, so they're strongest of DM or body around them, you could say.


Although you could debate this.

Many studies say women are more self-centered (actually thats wrong men are more self-centered, more male Ns) although pop culture always say women are more self-centered.

But anyways usually it says Men are miserable in young adulthood and get happy as they get older into the 50s and older.

And women are happy in young adulthood and childhood and become more miserable (due to lacking sex appeal and aging and bodily strength withering away, also unfulfilled financial dreams).

But anyways if women ARE pressure and produce then old age makes them happier, happy old women, who don't have to care about man pleasing clothes.

It kinds makes sense as childhood is happiest, even though teenage and prime would be better as shen is wang, so women must be eat and destroy.

As YHZP states that men are pressure and produce, so they must be happiest in middle age after the prime, which actually doesn't make sense.


But whatever, it's also said that women are depressed more then men, but I think it's false. Men are more self-centered more male Ns.

But then again people always say art (output) is gay and that art fulfills our basic need for gayness (which is strange as the YHZP says output is manly).

Although women are more self-expressive, men express anger more, men are stoic (resource strangles output, and keeps emotions in).

Really is a mystery.



OK NEVERMIND THAT"S FALSE:

【渊海子平】


五干属阳,喜合。
以甲为例★见甲:为比肩、兄弟。
见乙:为劫财、败财,剋父及妻。
见丙:为食神、天厨、寿星,为男。
见丁:为伤官、退财、耗气,子甥。
见戊:为偏财、偏妻、偏妾,剋子。
见己:为正财、正妻,剋母,为合神。
见庚:为偏官、七杀、官鬼、将星。
见辛:为正官、禄马、荣神,父母。
见壬:为倒食、偏印、梟神,剋女。
见癸:为印綬、正人、君子,产业

Yuan Hai Zi Ping:


(I'm just saying stuff). When it actually said Wei Nan, which basically means "become a man" I interpreted it as becomes a man, or this makes one manly, but actually the other meaning for Nan is Son or having a son, so this means you will have sons. As output is Sons, it makes sense as Eating God which meant having sons, then it said Shang Guan meant having Nephews or just Offspring in general.

So Eating Gods mean having sons, while Shang Guan means having nephews (or daughters possibly, just guessing from Learnbazi's translation)

Because this section always says at the end what kind of family relation this god means, for example Bi Jian was Brothers or Friends etc. And Jie Cai just meant killing your father and wife.


So in conclusion, pressure and produce is gay (art is gay, as people view it in general) and thus is of women, as Women have husbands (ie. pressure or sha) and they produce children and care for them (output) and tend to be weaker and less self-centered but blame things on others more (output) but are more self-expressive and real (output).

Not really lazy but set high standards for themselves (sha and output, output means always productive)

Men on the other hand are always greater (resource or strength, more self-centered, YOU ALWAYS NEED A DOSE OF STRENGTH FOR GREATNESS, which is why man dominates in all things, especially for great performers)

Men have wives (cai), and often get help and have benefactors (resource, ie. being born as a man is an advantage = resource) men are lazy and blame others (resource = lazy, blame others in a bratty self-centered way = resource, women blame others simply because they're weak and don't regulate what they say.... at all)

"You ought to be more like us men."

"be lazy? blame others?"

"NO, get help"

Quote House, pretty much sums up the behavior of men, getting help (resources). House the TV show that is.

Which is why Narcissists are such artistic geniuses and great performers and by compulsion become gay or transexuals, or often not in a lot of cases.

There are some gay people's bazi celebrities that I have been reading that have a lot of output and go on these cooking and art shows to be advisors, lol, bazi predicts well.

This is also why Omarosa is said to act like a man (resource chart), or why tom boys are said to be spoiled girls (resources).

In conclusion, resources breed bravery, due stoicness and not showing of fear and a high expectation of one's achievements (output) or doings. Also it makes one immune to physical damage in general.

Kind of weird. BUt yeah.

Feel free to debate the gender theory.



So to conclude. Men are miserable when there body is strong, same goes for  Narcissists.



This is why Jeff Conaway has a bad image in his middle age or Sam Vaknin or Omarosa does.

etc.

Even though this is supposed to be a good time for omarosa.

Debate.

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Re: Sharing My theory
« Reply #1 on: February 17, 2009, 12:08:55 PM »
for example a gay celebrity is Ted Allen:

Jia Xin Yi
Xu Si  Si


LOL, much output.


Clive Barker:

Jia     Ji    Ren
Shen You Chen



ehhhh, this one is weird.  Actually violates the principle, maybe he's not gay. Anyways lots to see Jia-Ji love making combo. In general though You-Chen to more Metal, Ji gets sucked into metal, pressure and produce.

That's only way I see him becoming gay... at all. Even though Narcissism is said to be gay, and Thailand has many gay transexuals as a pian yin nation (Feng Shui World Map , check it out, explains the metaphysics there too) and Hugh Laurie might be gay because House is narcissistic and rarely sexually active, he also seems to joke about being gay a lot, especially to other people and has a resource heavy chart. Doesn't explain why Ted Allen is gay with his output.

Anyways it good be the Sha making him gay, as ZPZQ implies combos take prevalence over Ban He, might inadvertently saying Penalty takes over Ban He, but Combos take over Penalty, must be a mistake.

But would be the only way Clive Barker is gay:

Jia    Ji     Ren
Shen You You


Weird. Anyways.

Please excuse all the Jia DMs I was trying to find gay Jia DMs because I thought I was gay, due to lack of libido, I did actually try to commit suicide the other day and the slit wrist method is quite interesting, I know how to do it. I know if I try again, even though I'm not supposed too, I will succeed.

Serial Killers are not Narcissists, Narcissists are rarely criminals but have many upheavals in their life, in general they always wind up being taken care of by someone else, and even though they lack life skills are always fed (due to resources) for some reason never feel the consequence of their actions (output, resource strangle = perfectionism and high expectations and pent anger), Serial Killers as some other member pointed out have Qi Sha or Guan Sha Hun Za situations leading to cruelty, but actually non self-centeredness.

They always seem to be on the point of dying, but it just never happens. Talking about Narcissists in general.

Anyways that's about it, so yeah.

ALso there is a special shen sha in the SMTH that's supposed to predict femineness or effeminateness in men or homosexuality.

I'll find it again if you want, mainly involves the Wu DM.

Also Narcissism is often linked to gay culture.

Either by compulsion because gayness is good for them (resource makes self-centered and strong, but output is good for them) OR because Pianyin or resource is just naturally self-centered and thus becoming gay or transexual is just SELF SEXUAL LOVE.

AND women are naturally more self-centered simply because they are and that's how pop culture thinks.

And the YHZP is actually saying that output is manly.

But I think that's all false, Output is for Sons is that what they were saying.

Resource storng people become transexual to fulfill the gap or compulsion or favourability of women or un-selfcenteredness or output or womanhood.

Kind of like the GREAT YANG becomes the New Yin in the Yin and Yang diagram, transforming at the dot.

Or it's just SO favourable for them that they must do it.

Anyways my position is that YHZP simply said that Son is output.


And that in my position, women are pressure and produce, and men are eat and destroy.

Sha and output, Resource and cai.


Please feel free to debate.

Bye.


Women are less self-centered then men.

Same reason why my tech teacher wants to go back to college or at least his teenage younger years, when he is in his 30s/ prime/ middle age.

His body is strong with much resource and sha.

Wants to go back to his weaker body time.

Bye.
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Re: Sharing My theory
« Reply #2 on: February 17, 2009, 12:24:51 PM »
Although you could even read without luck pillars and tai sui or season of the year.


You could read with Water is old age and Fire is young.

And old age is output and young age is just weak or sha.

Middle age is strength of resource and bi jian.

Or you could even read that the age of our time is Fire, as in we live in a fire epoch (man is producing and is at his productive peak, there is much global warming and heat, and more people are obese) it's possible but you would have to debate

And you could of course read the feng shui of your area and the general feng shui pillar of your country with the Feng Shui World Map.


Which is a way to provide an accurate reading, I've been playing around with that theory and that hot girl (JK).

But the water old age and fire one is kind of strange.

It divides the years unevenly, it goes something like, childhood equal Wood and growing, Fire is like primary or wonder years, and teenage from 13 onward is Earth, Metal is all adulthood and middle age, and Water is older years, grossly divided in a wrong way.

But you could subscribe if you want.

You could also use the Qi Phases.

For life/age bracket kind of reading, like what time falls into what qi phase.




Also it is said for pian yin or yin shou people they fear Eating Gods and Cai in general.

And meeting a cai strong time brings an early death and pian yin brings an early death in general.

Such as how I tried to commit suicide and knew I was going to die soon and fade away, I even saw a glimpse of my next life, looked like atlantis. Seriously.

But basically Heath Ledger with his pian yian chart unfortunately commited suicide in 2008: with a yin shou or resource in general year and an eating god year for him, ouch.

Even though it was heavy output or Eating God, he still died early like the Eating God commanded (the Zi Branch), he still gave his greatest performance this year.

Santogold also broke out as an excessive resource performer but with Zi Water in this year, she made her debut and instantly became popular. too much earth in her chart.


Hugh laurie an excessive Jia wood resource dm seemed to be unaffected, weird.

Either he was weak, and middle age is good strength or he is weak. But false. Resource strength is strongest and he has many roots, or at least strong roots.

Maybe it's the luck pillar.

Another interesting observation is we started performing around the same time, when I started breakdancing, he started house.

WEIRD
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And his bad years were mine. Maybe true. I think's it's false. Especially for Wu-Zi.


Anyways that's all.

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« Reply #3 on: February 17, 2009, 01:48:46 PM »
"why do you think girls like being teenagers?"

"old age defeats narcissism"

ok so the first 2 are by me, but here are some real ones:

"Some say narcissists tend to peak around middle age and then mellow out"

"Come middle age, men are supposed to be less satisfied with life"

psychopathy and antisocial personality disorder almost always mellow out into old age, mostly because they are phyiscally incapable of carrying out crimes <-- this is not a quote

"on people ages 8 to 80, they found that narcissism peaks at about 15 or 16 and then steadily declines as people get older, Shrira said. He attributed this partly to the “reality principle.” “When you’re in high school or college, you’re at the peak of your physical condition and the world is your oyster"

"One bit of good news: no one knows why, but, in certain cases, though rarely, with age (in one's forties), the disorder seems to mutate into a subdued version of its former self. This does not universally occur, though."

"A rare minority of narcissists accept their fate with fatalism or good humour. These precious few are healed mysteriously by the deepest offense to their megalomania - old age. They lose their narcissism and confront the outer world with the poise and composure that they lacked when they were captives of their own, distorted, narrative."

"The study, which analyzed data from 47,000 people, considered happiness levels of men and women. It found in their 20s, women are happier than men. Researchers blame that on young men's lackluster love lives and low-paying first jobs, Bowers reports.

The gap closes with age - and by 48, men are happier. The study suggests it's because by then men are married and better off financially.

But the actual survey the study was based on was headed up by Tom Smith at the University of Chicago. It only asked women how happy they are, and just like a lot of men, didn't bother to ask them why"

 newbielink:http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/07/30/eveningnews/main4309455.shtml [nonactive]

"Who's Happier, Women Or Men?
New Research Suggests Until Late 40s, Ladies Are Happier - Then Everything Changes "


"The course of this disorder is chronic. This disorder is usually worse in young adulthood and often improves in middle age." on Antisocial Personality Disorder



Symptoms for personality disorders often onset in teenage or young adulthood years, mostly due to pent up anger, resources, and the strength of the body.

Also because you cannot diagnose these disorders in young children only as "Conduct Disorder" for Antisocial Personality disorder, bratty behaviours are normal for young children.

But as the DM becomes stronger or penetrates, differentiates itself, or "peaks" according to the Qi Phases around just before the "middle of life" in terms of age, or according to the mountain ^

which is more accurately this:


         .
      .         .
   .                    .
.                              .


The peak occurs much earlier. Just like the 12 Qi Phases suspect, many more weaken the DM in the latter half then strengthen.


Thus DM separates itself form it's resources or the "womb" from which it came. The resources and the DM are separate now, the DM is strong, the difference is easily seeen, in the middle age or young adulthood or teenage years the brattiness is easily seen and how wrong it is. It is out of place.

But as a child brattiness is normal, as the DM is weak, and the resources and DM are still tied together, or kind of combined, the DM is not yet penetrated and not as strong, resource strength is stronger.

But it becomes more wrong and more noticeable the more penetrated the DM is.

Which is why Ns seem to be unaffected by time both mentally and to a certain extent physically, but not really.

"age defeats narcissism" = good I guess.

Although that quote is by me, so I made it up.


Teenagers are emotionally dead.

"dies an inward death" quote wiki on Revolutionary Road, the main actor who plays the guy is Leonardo Dicaprio, a follow the Resource chart

I've seen many follow resource charts.

EMOTIONALLY KILLED YOU, stunting emotional growth, many teenagers tend to think that they suffer from some kind of disorder, and they're messed up, partly because of being like a hypochondriac, pent up emotions, or partly because they think its cool


Why do you think women who marry and have children are not as hot anymore?

(Output hurts the husband)

Generally speaking older means becoming more output, or you become the next phase or what you produce.

Although technically that doesn't happen until after the peak is reached around 1/3 or a little less then half of the way through life as the Qi Phases say.


         .
      .         .
   .                    .
.                              .




Mostly teenage and college/ prime years. 20s especially.


Old people are depressing but are they depressed? no, they depress because they output into other making them depressed, teengers are brightening and happy to see, but they are depressed.

Korea SPARKLING.


"everyone knows it's easier to see inside a house's windows during the night time then during the day time" paraphrasing from to kill a mockingbird, night is water


Old age is water, similarly, a tree fluorishes in summer with many branches and leaves but saves no energy for winter, in winter the tree is strong because it saves energy for later, but can't use it, it withers and dies, similarly to old age.

Weird the similarity between firing young people, and fluorishing trees and old people and withering trees.

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WERID>/".1


Just found something really funny:

牛監簿:庚寅、乙酉、癸亥、丙辰。


Gui Yi    Geng
Hai You Yin


Contrasted with Jeff Conaways:

Gui  Yi    Geng
You You Yin


Found in the Yin Shou Ge section, LOL, weird, and accurate, weird.

To determine if Bazi is real one can easily apply the Bi Jian test, such as House and Wilson are friends in real life and in house because they are both Jia. Or, all three of my cousins are Ding, therefore they are siblings.

Or, my friend asks me to astrology his friends, he names 5 of them, they are all Ren and he is Ren, big coincidence? YES, and it also proves Bazi is real too.

That's basically what happened except it might have been more like 4, or maybe 3, maybe 4, dunno.

If one only speaks facts then they really can't talk that much. Omarosa and her biting honesty in "The B**** Switch" book, yin shou ge.

Narcissists are like people that are constantly being created and recreated (resource), of course essentially all DMs are good, normal and the same, their situation makes them bad.

So it's not the DMs fault per se, but the excessive resources, are like.

Wet clay, the wet clay keeps being remolded and remolded and molded because it's not perfect (expectations, superiors, anger, parents), but eventually as one ages eventually it settles into a more solid state.

Often in a more unique state or accomplishment then other who weren't remolded or no effort put into, technically.

The clay must settle.

Another quote:

"While grandiosity is the diagnostic hallmark of pathological narcissism, there is research evidence that pathological narcissism occurs in two forms, (a) a grandiose state of mind in young adults that can be corrected by life experiences, and (b) the stable disorder described in DSM-IV, which is defined less by grandiosity than by severely disturbed interpersonal relations."


halcyon, narcissism. good site.

note "YOUNG ADULTS"YOUUNG ADULTS.
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faggy theater district. Theatre is art.


In the Elizabeth movie there is a transsexual or gay person who is the Duke of Anjou, when looking at the actor who played him it was a mainly output and pressure chart, accurately predicting women.

I have some faggy friends, they are obsessed with keeping sexy and constantly working out, they have a pressure chart, maybe some output. Apparently Michael Crichton wrote in his fiction books that only fags are so obsessed with their bodies, and if one works out that much one must be a professional trainer (can't remember) or a fag.

On the other hand some transsexuals seem to have resource charts.

Men always recieve education (resource), and are given more opportunity (resource or output?), strange, doesn't output seem more manly?

I mean women are always expected to act like women, resource restricts output (being a lady, feminine etc. LAN CAI HO the EFFEMINATE BEGGAR WHO IS A TRANSSEXUAL). And then again women acting like men is not as bad as men acting like women (resource restricts output?).

Besides isn't output more of a manly thing? And isn't opportunity more of an output or resource thing? Are men really that lazy or do they get that much help? (resource) or do women recieve more help and anger and are more patronized by people and society (resource). Aren't men independent and strong on their own? (no resource).

Besides America on the Feng Shui World Map is an output nation mainly (earth with You metal output, although I thought resource was more likely for America) so if America is the land of tolerance, openness and opportunity then isn't opportunity Output? Like the Feng Shui World Map seems to suggest, or at least put America as an Output God nation, due to that GMT line thing.


In other news Ten Gods theory doesn't really seem to rely on strength or not, some people like strength because then there are only 2 out of the 5 things that are bad for you.

But in Ten Gods theory in the YHZP it's actually quite different, there is no strength, it's more like, Resource doesn't like Eating God and Cai at all, and Guan likes Resource but not too much and some Cai but doesn't like output, or output likes Cai but not guan or resource, and bi jian i don't know, maybe it doesn't like cai.

It's kind of weird as there is no strength, to read you have to determine the dominant God of your chart and then read the YHZP or SMTH on your God, SMTH is like 6th chapter or 5th one I believe, they intersperse with a bunch of other charts.

But anyways the point is you can't generalize or read based just on that you have to use chart type in 18 external chart types otherwise it's not as accurate, a lot of things can imply and it can't be really scientifically measured.


bye.

Are women or men more self-centered?

women are more patronized (resource), women or men expected more? (resource way, not sha way), better for women to play with trucks then for men to play with dolls

which one is restricted more or expected more from (resource), women are more taken care of by mothers? (resource), transsexuals who have obsessed mothers? (resource)

women who act like men? (and have much sha), or men who act like women and have only cai or resource, it really depends.

I'm still trying to figure out whether men or women are pressure and produce (sha and output) or eat and destroy (resource and cai).



Women are taken less seriously (resource, easy life?, spoiled people are never taken seriously), women more patronized? (resource), women more restricted by society in actions?  (resource, women must sit upright, cross legs, act feminine, not laugh racously etc.) or are men like that (men must never act womenly? at all costs, men must be stoic)

doubt it, resource seems more womenly

women have easy lives, they live longer

but output also means long life, as well as resource

and men are the ones that die and get injured in war (sha, although pian yin or dao shi means dying early, probably from suicide, although as one gradully becomes output the dao shi will kill you from before, ie. water extinguishes the fire or wood destroys the earth, etc.)

or maybe women are sha (as nothing is expected from them resources, expectations from parents or superiors, society etc. anger blame etc.)

although people blame things on women (resource), women blame things often on other people? (output)

and what if men are pressure and produce how come there actions are restricted? this is not sha expectations, or sha working hard, are men lazy?

and if men are output how come they create all the great things when they shouldn't be.


this is very confusing.

women are more emotional or expressive (resource?) or more depressed, men or women more depressed? (resource)

basically it all comes down to who is more self-centered, some people say women, some people say men, survey says men, pop culture says women

and women are more happy in younger years (more strength and resource, but are more self-centered?)

or do people become stronger as they grow older? or weaker? or more self-centered or less?

or generous, or stingy? children are generous because they don't have to worry about anything, resource is not stingy, resource gives and are generous with resources, I think.

and men are happier in later and older years, after 20s or prime because of lackluster sex lives and bad jobs and business and money (too strong? too peak physical condition? too self centered? who knows)

women more nurturing? (output?) who knows, but I thought men were the ones that were loud and gross and obnxious and got involved in drugs and rape and alchohol and ejoying life (output), not the perfect bratty creepy, lackluster or rather dull resource people like the main character of The Bad Seed.

this is all really confusing.

although it's debatable if the excessive resource bad seed character girl is really girly, as she appears to be.

and plus hollywood is often gay, with so much bratty people. like heat ledger, christian bale or jake gyllenhaaal, almost always lack performance element, or jesse spencer, prime examples of gay like pretty boys.

it's kind of weird, they have no output, much resource, some money in month the other main powerful god, and some sha or pian guan

are they manly or gay?

is hollywood gay because it's output like theatre is gay and always output?

or is it gay because of the proliferation of people who are willing to perform because they have too much resource and thus resourcei s good for performance but it also makes people gay.

good question.

or does one use that SMTH shen sha to determine gayness (yes there is one).

who knows.

although miriam rivera, appears to have much influence from mother, yet is transsexual and gay.

strange.

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weird.


although in china happiness is old age and having lots of children, grand children and nephews, surrounded by them,

like output,

besides children are like output that one creates or molds or dispenses wisdom or knowledge too

is that not true? or is the body weak?


besides china like that because they were a pian yin nation, or were before, maybe they were a sha or cai nation, anyways thailand takes over as the metaphysics capital according to the Feng Shui World Map, simply due to the fact that the GMT line is fatedly placed in the right place, maybe the locations shift over time and China was before

but thailand and singapore is now . or are now.

besides america is rightly a metal place with all the guns, although I debate maybe the branch represents the nation and the stem represents the deity, simply because america seems more bratty rather than real.

even though they do create a lot of things (or maybe they don't at least anything useful, although having much resource and output means one creates something useful, maybe it's not useful because of the too much output and no resource, stupid ideas)

or maybe they shouldn't be rulling because of the shang guan

anyways britain always creates good things, they are geniuses in art and invention, although stuck up pretentious and bratty (resource?), or are they real, output and generous, or are they more so real?

they did create america or at least america is there genius offspring after all.

whatever.

bye.

demi lovata


anyways

as tropic thunder said:

"Oh come on everyone is gay once in a while, this is hollywood."

LOL DAMMITq;1.

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bye.



see notice how tyra banks became fatter in 2008 (yin shou year for her, or zheng yin, means she's fatter) or how my cousin became fatter in her yi-mao double yin shou or zheng yin LP.

or how santogold or heath ledger gave their best performances, including christian bale and zachary quinto and a follow the resource person who is a metal DM performed on the daily announcements and participated in a school competition in this excessive water 2008 year.

Zi is more powerful as water branch because Wu is locked with Gui inside Zi?


bye.



also note how in House House's friend are same DM as him Jia Wood but when they introduce a competitor or someone who can go "toe to toe" with house, they introduce Detective. Michael Tritter, a Yi wood DM, his competitor.

Lol.



Narcissists tend to come from ordinary middle class backgrounds, not much abuse except emotional, or those psychopaths who have normal loving families,

The Mask of Sanity by Harvey M. Cleckley

and of course:

Halcyon.com




Ben Linus pian yin actor?

Ben Linus is a character on Lost.


He is manipulative, actor is pian yin, like all others, he lacks performance element. Lol.


LOL.

Lol.


I'm not actually laughing.


Bye.


Let me make it very clear hitler is not a psychopath or narcissist, neither are those serial killers or other violent gangsters, criminal beaters or dictators.

The Joker might be a psychopath but he's still violent, kind of deviant.

The Psychopath or Narcissists I speak of is one that comes from ordinary middle class backgrounds, normal childhood, normal background (very often this is the case), but they are so inwardly screwed up and mentally deviant.

And this cannot be explained, contrasted with serial killers or mass murderers who ALWAYS at least 90% or 99% of the time have horribly abused childhoods.

The one's I speak of never speak or stick to a life goal, follow through on anything, have a mysterious past and strange upheavals and accidents in his history.

Although some mass murderers have normal childhoods and are popular in school etc. In general killers have bad childhoods.

The one I talk of has too many resources, many celebrities or hollywood actors or actresses have this (the cow guy from house, omar epps, ashley eckstein, many others, hugh laurie, heath ledger, christian bale, rebecca romjin, kevjumba, some bboys?, yeah some bboys, william hung etc. etc. yoshihiro togashi? not really, maybe etc.)

but never really accomplishes anything with his or her life and kind of moves around in an unstable way.


Violent criminals don't have this, celebrities do, or at least most are non-famous or never become famous but have a certain reputation with people that knew them.

Celebrities are brats, criminals are not.




psychopaths start of well but problems show up later in life



just like peter leung said for excessive resource or pian yin people in later life, failure to take real action, no follow through, etc.



much like stewie in family guy


it tends to be that psychopathic actors in real life that are unviolent, heath ledger, christian bale, the bad seed actor act as violent characters in their movies:

the joker, american psycho, the bad seed


acting out their dreams and violent fantasies perhaps.


etc.



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« Reply #4 on: February 25, 2009, 10:26:53 AM »
"The antisocial personality ameliorates with age and, very often, vanishes completely in midlife. Not so pathological narcissism. Many narcissists do get better as they mature, battered by life crises and faced with new responsibilities and new, sometimes painful, lessons.

But other narcissists only get worse. Age seems to accentuate the worst in them. I wrote about this deterioration here."

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"Personality Disorders (PDs). Most PDs, particularly those in Cluster B (i.e., Borderline, Narcissistic, Histrionic, and Antisocial) decline in frequency and intensity with age. However, PD presentation may take a modified form, and these "geriatric variants" are associated with difficulties in medical management and psychotherapeutic treatment. For example, the antisocial behavior of older adults may not be manifested in ways that lead to incarceration as with some younger persons with sociopathy, but may be exhibited as selfish, impulsive behavior towards community caregivers, resulting in abandonment of the older adults"






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