Can someone help me to read either using ZWDS or BZ about my marriage and career

[CcrayonN]

DOB: 30 July 1983
Time: 14.05 afternoon
country: Singapore
gender: male

Thank you. Currently im still single.
Just broke off with my ex 6 months ago.

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You are very focused on attaining your dreams and goals. You also have an insatiable hunger for the accumulation of wealth. You can also be very specific and detailed in handling numbers and figures.

My suggestion for your career is to be involved in the finance and banking industry and/or related job-scope. Please avoid physical handling of cash. Probably doing loan-restructuring risk-analysis may be good. Even the sales-oriented job-role involving loan-restructuring might be good too.

Your marriage will face sudden changes and it will be frequently due to money/finance challenges. Your preferred love partners like to be free and radical, yet they also like to have the final say over the finances and about your interests. IMHO, the current decade trend of 24 to 33 is definitely not a good time to settle down as your marriage trends indicate a love-hate relationship. 34 to 43 will require you to put in the effort to focus on the positive aspects of love relationships in order to keep the marriage intact. The trends of 44 to 53 look more stable for marriage.

Again, going back to the Basic Life Chart, I suggest that you adopt spiritual cultivation as a form of intervention. Meditation is another way of raising self-awareness and improving self-restraint.

[CcrayonN]

Thank you so much for your reply. Actually i wanted to settle down soon and will like to see myself marry in 1 year time. is there ways to see the bond between my wife and i? like the relationship between us?

I do work in the finance industry all alone. i think i best suit this area

actually im quite concern about my marriage life. maybe you can feed me more info. thank

You are very focused on attaining your dreams and goals. You also have an insatiable hunger for the accumulation of wealth. You can also be very specific and detailed in handling numbers and figures.

My suggestion for your career is to be involved in the finance and banking industry and/or related job-scope. Please avoid physical handling of cash. Probably doing loan-restructuring risk-analysis may be good. Even the sales-oriented job-role involving loan-restructuring might be good too.

Your marriage will face sudden changes and it will be frequently due to money/finance challenges. Your preferred love partners like to be free and radical, yet they also like to have the final say over the finances and about your interests. IMHO, the current decade trend of 24 to 33 is definitely not a good time to settle down as your marriage trends indicate a love-hate relationship. 34 to 43 will require you to put in the effort to focus on the positive aspects of love relationships in order to keep the marriage intact. The trends of 44 to 53 look more stable for marriage.

Again, going back to the Basic Life Chart, I suggest that you adopt spiritual cultivation as a form of intervention. Meditation is another way of raising self-awareness and improving self-restraint.

[CcrayonN]

can anyone show my chart?
i cant seem to plot it right.

thank thank 

[ditto]

Thank you so much for your reply. Actually i wanted to settle down soon and will like to see myself marry in 1 year time. is there ways to see the bond between my wife and i? like the relationship between us?

Congratulations Crayon! Actually there are many ways to see the bond between your wife and you. IMHO, the most important part cannot be seen from the chart. That is the choices that you actively make to keep the relationship possible. It is about being aware of all your feelings, emotions, actions, and having empathy for your wife. Karma allows relationships to be possible, choices make it happen, thus we always have a choice. No matter what happens, support your wife because she may be quite stubborn and determined to get her way. In the end, it is about companionship through the ups-and-downs in life. Sometimes we can laugh at ourselves and enjoy life; even the the poorest man is the most joyful.

I strongly suggest that both of you adopt spiritual cultivation practices as the awareness and empathy may help during arguments and fights.

I will suggest my favourite date and time again for fetching the bride, tea ceremony, and setting the bed - 24/12/2010 1100hrs to 1259hrs.

[CcrayonN]

wow thank so much brother

are you able to plot my chart? cant get it right.. haha
ya.. i being in karma effect.

i have a mole on my palm. i wonder if this is gd or bad..

[ditto]

wow thank so much brother

are you able to plot my chart? cant get it right.. haha
ya.. i being in karma effect.

Attached herewith as requested.

i have a mole on my palm. i wonder if this is gd or bad..

Apologies brudder, I have yet to learn anything substantial in palmistry. Perhaps fellows members can help with the mole analysis.

[CcrayonN]

oh.. i think i need to post more before i can actually see the chart.. haha.

[CcrayonN]

ohh what does the po jun star in my spouse house represent?
and its between the age of 24-33. so what does it mean?

thank you

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ohh what does the po jun star in my spouse house represent?
and its between the age of 24-33. so what does it mean?

Spouse and spouse relationship can be subject to daring moves. Thus sudden changes. Furthermore there is Hua Lu (Flow Enhancer), which may lead to very sudden change in relationship and/or Spouse's actions/temper/mood.

It means that you will need to put in a lot of effort in your love relationships during 24 to 33. Key ingredients for sustained love - Awareness, Acceptance, Positive and Affective Communication, Empathy, Forbearance, and Letting-Go.

[CcrayonN]

Yes you are very right. My last relationship which is polly like 6mths ago was a sudden change in both of us. I did not do the key ingredients as you suggested in sustaining this love. Was regret. and she was very stubborn too.

Both of us used to be very in love but there is a sudden change in environment between us.

Im afraid when i look into my spouse house. It dont seem like having alot of gd star there. Sigh!

I appreciated your help so far! and cheers

[CcrayonN]

Morning may i ask which method is better in assessing the relationship between my future wife and i?
is bazi a better way?

Congratulations Crayon! Actually there are many ways to see the bond between your wife and you. IMHO, the most important part cannot be seen from the chart. That is the choices that you actively make to keep the relationship possible. It is about being aware of all your feelings, emotions, actions, and having empathy for your wife. Karma allows relationships to be possible, choices make it happen, thus we always have a choice. No matter what happens, support your wife because she may be quite stubborn and determined to get her way. In the end, it is about companionship through the ups-and-downs in life. Sometimes we can laugh at ourselves and enjoy life; even the the poorest man is the most joyful.

I strongly suggest that both of you adopt spiritual cultivation practices as the awareness and empathy may help during arguments and fights.

I will suggest my favourite date and time again for fetching the bride, tea ceremony, and setting the bed - 24/12/2010 1100hrs to 1259hrs.

[ditto]

Morning may i ask which method is better in assessing the relationship between my future wife and i?
is bazi a better way?

Perhaps you can test it out.

[CcrayonN]

haha thank for your reply.

i do have basic assessment after some reading.

from bazi i see that i have indirect wealth and okie with my future wife i guess so

[CcrayonN]

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[CcrayonN]

Hi below is my ba zi can anyone help me to read regarding relationship with future wife, marriage and career.

pls advice. thank you 

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