Getting married, should I?

[Jlim]

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[fsa]

hi fsa,

no problem with me here.
i am a complete novice who is learning here and her bazi reminds me of something.
i am genuinely asking out of curiosity here.
Maybe you can correct me, if you see that i am making some conceptual mistake when i am asking that question.

Cheers,
RenZi

Hi RenZi,

I know you are genuine, so it is not about you, it is about me reminiscing about the old times....

fsa

[tania]

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Don't panic now... step by step.
I've just looked at your chart (actually re-looked, since I saw your chart months ago in this forum)...
                                           LP 2006-2015            AP2010
Xin     Xin        Yi     Ren              Ren                        Geng
Mao   Chou     Si     Xu                Yin                           Yin

Your Useful God is Ren Water, and Favorable God is Jia Wood.
Your current LP Ren Yin is one of the best LP's in your life, since your Useful God is repeated,
and Jia Wood has arrived to further enhance your chart.
And you're very lucky to have this auspicious LP in your 'productive' age.
('Productive' here means optimal age for a girl to be married.)
For women's charts, auspicious LP/AP very often signifies marriage proposals.

I would have no doubt to get married this year, Fengshui_Cutie.
Looking also at your boyfriend's chart, perhaps Ren Wu or Gui Wei month would be auspicious.
But date selection is another ball game for a later posting....

What's the Spouse star of the above bazi and the boy's bazi ?

If I'm not mistaken the conditions and the role of the spouse star would determine the quality and timing of a marriage.

       Cheers

       Tania

[Fengshui_Cutie]

Hi all! wow thank you for all the answer and support, I though i was "abandoned"!

To RenWater: yes, I agree with your analysis. He can be spendthrift... can it be a big problem later on? :-s
To RenZi: I will remember that! about 2003, i cant remember at the moment... sorry... T__T
To Apple: thank you the only thing we are both sure at the moment that we love and want to live with each other...
To Fsa: Uhm there was always something going on... I cant recall XD I will try though...
To Leegiat: No offense but I was always told I'm a Weak Metal and my bf is a Weak Wood? ?__?
To Jlim: I was told my Useful God is Ding Fire, and Favorable God is Jia Wood... Can you tell me further why my Useful God should be Ding Fire instead... :-s I always though I'm a weak metal, therefore, I need "resource" like "earth" and more "metal" for my weak-self?
If it's the way it should be then it's such a fantasic news for the new year... ^___^  I'm planning on a new venture involved in fashion clothing, yup sell clothes and comestic.

To Tania: I think my Spouse Star is "Bing fire"

Looking forward to hear from all of you again!
Regards

[RenWater]

Hi Cutie,

To RenWater: yes, I agree with your analysis. He can be spendthrift... can it be a big problem later on? :-s

Thanks for the feedback. Well, both of you are attracted to each other - primarily due to the lacking of each others' element. You lack wood and he lacks metal.

Similarily, I lack wood and my wife lacks metal. I'm full of metal. In fact, I have the western directional combo in my charts but zero wood. She lacks metal and full of woods - being born in Mao Year.

These attractions are on a "need" basis. It's a natural affinity that makes you feel that your boyfriends completes you. However, you would feel that your guy is more of a best friend than the "Romeo and Juliet lover-thinghy". More so, especially when the spouse star is in the Month pillars and not in the Spouse pillar.

I dare say that the marriage would last. A best friend forever kinda relationship. 

Regards,

[tania]

Hi Cutie

You have all the 5 elements in your bazi. Generally speaking you'll always have the solutions to the problems you face!

       Cheers

        Tania

[RenZi]

Hi Fengshui Cutie,

Seeing that you are still troubled...might i suggest you read the following ?

http://www.fivearts.net/index.php/topic,4614.0.html

i think it should help you find peace and maybe it could help your coming marriage too =)
Hope you live a good life !

Cheers,
RenZi

[Fengshui_Cutie]

Thank you for all your advices

To RenWater: thank you
To Apple: I hope so ^^
To RenZi: actually I read that topic here last year ^^ I though that lesson is fantasic... I'm a buddhist myself so I always try to apply that lesson

Hi Jlim, how about Jlim, can you give me your feedback again ^^  Can I even send him a private message?
Cheers,

[Jlim]

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[Jlim]

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[Fengshui_Cutie]

Hi Jlim,

Thank you so much for a clear and detailed analysis! : )
Is that why RenWater said I need more wood and my bf needs more Metal I will try to do my best in this LP, 2006-2015 you said?
Best regards

[Fengshui_Cutie]

However, you would feel that your guy is more of a best friend than the "Romeo and Juliet lover-thinghy". More so, especially when the spouse star is in the Month pillars and not in the Spouse pillar.

... I'm wondering... so that means I will never have a "Romeo & Juliet lover-thinghy" because my spouse star is in the Month pillar? I will only have best friend kind of relationship??? Is this the same with men when they have spouse star in Month pillar?

Regards,

[Jlim]

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[Fengshui_Cutie]

^___^ Hi Jlim,

I dont know much about Bazi that's why I'm curious for every new thing someone mentioned :"> Well, I like her strong character and her charity works... I respect her for that. I cant judge about her love life but she seems always crazy being in love, of course she was in love so many times ^_______^ she seems happy with Brad now ?___?  So what's the thing with spouse star in which pillar is better? or it depends on which chart?

Jlim, no offense but are you sure I am in the best LP of my life? I noticed that everything I want it often does happen, however, with something bad comes also, like there's always a price to pay. Why cant someone just be lucky without hassle ^^" For example, I'm planning on my venture, I need more capital and someone agreed to help me, the only thing I dont want to involve with that person... I mean if it's from someone I trust and comfortable with, it'd be so much better...

What is your opinion or it's just coincident? Is it still considered "luck"?
Best regards,

[RenWater]

Hi Cutie,

I'm wondering... so that means I will never have a "Romeo & Juliet lover-thinghy" because my spouse star is in the Month pillar?

There are some questions, in which by the time you have to ask, the answer is already there.

It's not really a "bad" thing that your spouse does not sit in the spouse palace. One of those - not in the ideal location. We don't get to choose our cards. We just have to know how to play the game well with the cards that you have. That would also mean that you found your fiance at your place of work. He'll be working. That's good huh?

You would have a good marriage nonetheless. Romeo-and-Juliet thinghy may sound very very nice. Like in the love movies. At times, it may be oversold.

With all god wishes.