Lost and trap with my life

[veronyeo]

Dear all,
            I am new to the forum here and earlier on i had actually post my quiries on another gal post. So sorry for that!
            As mention, i am a 32yrs chinese female living in singapore. I had a son of 12yrs and he is currently living with me.I am very lost about life and my path and i dont wanna drag my son along with me. I know that i am selfish in some ways but what can i do?? Please help!!! Will greatly appreciated everyone's help! Thank you.

            My DOB: 05021978
            Hours: 0419hrs (am)
            Gender:Felmale
           My son's DOB: 16111998
           Hours:0719hrs(am)
   

[leegiat]

 

Hi Veron,

Is your birthtime taken from your birth certificate or were you born in the hospital?
Your son time of birth is correct.

Till-then, cheers.

 

[borneo219]

Hi Veron

    Time                     DM                 Month              Year
      Jia                      Wu                    Jia                  Wu
      Yin                      Xu                     Yin                  Wu
 Jia Bing Wu       Xin Ding Wu       Jia Bing Wu         Ji Ding
Chang Sheng           Mu            Chang Sheng     Di Wang  12 Qi phases based on DM
Lin Quan                                    Lin Quan           Di Wang   12 Qi phases based on HS above

Nayin for time - Water of a Great Stream(2)
Nayin for Day -  Bushes on the Plain(6)
Nayin for Month - Water of a Great Stream(2)
Nayin for Year - Heavenly Fire(4)
The year Nayin which represents the self is stage 4 fire which is quite strong.
It is supported by the month Yin in spring when fire is strong.
Further supported by the Day Nayin the bushes maybe creating a bush fire by now.
Imagine fire in summer with bushes around.
The good thing is the Water from the Time and Month pillar to control the spread of the fire.
The Nayin analysis shows quite a balance chart.
It also shows the clashes of fire and water which can also represent quarrelsome life.

Shen Sha for Time 學堂：Literacy Star
Shen Sha for Day 十惡大敗：Shiganlu in Void 魁罡：Kui Gang Tianfu
Shen Sha for Month  學堂：Literacy Star
Shen Sha for Year 羊刃：Yang Ren  將星：Jiang Xing

LP
2018     2008       1998
  Ji         Geng       Xin
You         Xu          Hai

Wu Xu Gui Kang DM doesnt like to meet Wealth which is represented by the Hai LP 2003 to 2007.
Wu Xu Shiganlu in void doesnt like to meet Kong Wang represented by 2008 Zi 2009 Chou.
Gui Gang DM prefers to be strong. So far in the past LP there has been no support for the Gui Kang represented by earth and fire.
The next luck period represented by Xu earth should bring relief followed by Ji earth.
The EB has Yin Wu Xu combination to fire which is resources for the Earth which is auspicious.

2009 is Ji Chou year.
Beginner of the year when the Jia combines with the Ji earth to earth should have been quite good.
Only with arrival of the Chou after August that the Kong Wang effect takes place.
And probably things starts to turn bad.
Kong Wang for Day Pillar Wu Xu  are Chen Si
Kong Wang for year Pillar Wu Wu are Zi Chou

You have 學堂：Literacy Star in ur time pillar and month supported by Lin Quan Wang Qi.
It represent ur ability in studies.
主才華出眾，聰明俊秀。
一生中發展性不錯，會讀書，讀書可有成就。
適合公職或教師之職。
Bright, intelligent and elegant.
Good at study.
Suitable to be a teacher.

The 羊刃：Yang Ren  將星：Jiang Xing combination at the year pillar with Di Wang prosperous Qi probably shows u have quite a volatile personality.
And maybe as a result u get urself in trouble sometimes due to ur temper.

In ur chart the Xu represent ur spouse.
There is a Yin Wu Xu combination on one side and a half combination of Yin Xu on the other side.
It probably represent ur spouse is being attracted by others all the time and most likely taken away from u.

Ur past LP has not been easy, thats y u feels really bad.
If u understand Bazi, u will realise that life is not perfect.
In ur chart, it will improve when u meet the earth LP.
Maybe if u look back then, u will realise life is not that bad afterall.

[Benjimen]

Hi Veron,

Don't mind if I chip in a little......

Are you about 150 - 155cm in height, dark skin? Very impulsive in your decision making and your words?  lazy is another word.....

In my opinion, you are in your worst luck pillars, your are totally lost as everything is at a stand still. Something happen to your marriage/relationship in june 2009? Maybe you have decided to walk out of it at that time.

Too much Fire in your chart, Metal and Water will aid you.
Metal is your thinking and Water is your wealth.  Thus if you exercise planning and think thru before any action, it will help you.  Put some heart into your child, because he is your output, which is metal and it is your favorable element.

Use your thinking to generate money, thus it may be good if you can get into financial services or trade that help and plan for others.

Things will get better from 2019 onwards....

Just my unworthy 2 cents....

Cheers,
Benjimen

[juniorpua]

Hi Veron,
do you always feel that you keep meeting bad people?
do you always feel that you are helping others and yet not appreciated?
has your self centeredness contributed anything to it ? live and let live 
life is never smooth. different people go through bad period at different timing.
nobody is exceptional. some knows the art of camourfaging and some do not.


cheers

[veronyeo]

Dear Leegiat,
                     Yes that was the time shown on my bith certificate and i was born in the hospital.
                     I do agree that i had a fiery temper beyond my control and since my son is the only one by me now, we two clashes alot and its turning our relation sour!
                     I really appreciated all of those for their efforts of helping me! Thank you so much!

[leegiat]

 

Hi all,

Hi Veron,

Let's start with what you want in Life. You have to be specific as we then can discuss from your birth chart,  the best direction to take. For relationships, the members have already contributed here and you can then analyse how to improve on it as I can see you are honest with yourself, knowing your negative attributes. Just share further on what are the choices you are comtemplating on in your mind now on the changes you want in your life.

Till-then, cheers.
 

[veronyeo]

Hi all,

Hi Veron,

Let's start with what you want in Life. You have to be specific as we then can discuss from your birth chart,  the best direction to take. For relationships, the members have already contributed here and you can then analyse how to improve on it as I can see you are honest with yourself, knowing your negative attributes. Just share further on what are the choices you are comtemplating on in your mind now on the changes you want in your life.

Till-then, cheers.
 

[veronyeo]

Actually what i am facing currently was the sour relation between my dad and me. My relation with my husband is a vry complicated  story and due to many circumstances and reasons, i had to come to my parents for rely.Thgs turn out fine for the 1st yr or so den it was fights and quarrels!! Never a peaceful day for anyone if i had to recall! Its making me so very guilty, to my parents, my son or my the other half! My family is running a family business and i m helping out! I have to admit that i used to be ambitious, but nw i have no more dreams of which i wanted to pursit. I am nw jus becomin more n more lazy! I wanted to help my parents with their business but my dad had different ideas with me.I actually wanted to go into human psychology! I wanted to achieve somethg in my life, is that possilbe?? I shld end my marriage ASAP right. This yr is  a crucial yr for my son, he is having his Pri 6 final exam and i dont wanna get my problems to distract him. ( By the way, our DOB as mention earlier on the posts were not the chinese lunur date, its english.)

[leegiat]

 

Hi Veron,

Forget about changing your dad's mindset. Next year, he would instead ask you for your viewpoint. Meanwhile, try to improve your relationship with him now slowly. Causes and Effects, what you do Today would be your Tommorow. You have a very intelligent kid, there's not much of a worry. You have been under a lot of stress the last few years. Just relax and give yourself a break that you deserve.

I 'm using a different kind of destiny analysis, I would need to know where you have been living the last 2 years, ha-ha, just kidding, I mean you need to borrow a compass and let me know the direction that your house is facing. I would then be able to confirm on what's happening to you and we can go further.

Meanwhile if you are a smoker, I would advise you to try to quit.

Till-then, cheers.

 

[veronyeo]

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Hi Veron,

Forget about changing your dad's mindset. Next year, he would instead ask you for your viewpoint. Meanwhile, try to improve your relationship with him now slowly. Causes and Effects, what you do Today would be your Tommorow. You have a very intelligent kid, there's not muc

Hi Veron,

Forget about changing your dad's mindset. Next year, he would instead ask you for your viewpoint. Meanwhile, try to improve your relationship with him now slowly. Causes and Effects, what you do Today would be your Tommorow. You have a very intelligent kid, there's not much of a worry. You have been under a lot of stress the last few years. Just relax and give yourself a break that you deserve.

I 'm using a different kind of destiny analysis, I would need to know where you have been living the last 2 years, ha-ha, just kidding, I mean you need to borrow a compass and let me know the direction that your house is facing. I would then be able to confirm on what's happening to you and we can go further.

Meanwhile if you are a smoker, I would advise you to try to quit.

Till-then, cheers.

 

Actually i am currently staying at the west side of singapore.We are actually staying in the office which we took as a living habitat.I knew that in chinese fengshui,its not good to live in an office but really leaves me and my family without a choice.Who dont wanna live comfortably in their own house?Btw, mus i be vey exact with the direction?Thank you sooo much for trying to help me.

[leegiat]

 

Hi Veron,

Not to worry, sometimes in Life, we can't choose. You don't have to be exact, I just need to know North, NorthEast, East, SouthEast, etc.... this eight directions. I' m going to Bed, get back to you tomorrow.

Meanwhile, a movie if you can't sleep.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCr4AJkljZ0 [nofollow]
 
Cheers.
 

[veronyeo]

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I am facin the west side.

[weikee]

Hi Veron,

Not to worry, sometimes in Life, we can't choose. You don't have to be exact, I just need to know North, NorthEast, East, SouthEast, etc.... this eight directions. I' m going to Bed, get back to you tomorrow.

Meanwhile, a movie if you can't sleep.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCr4AJkljZ0 [nofollow]
 
Cheers.
 

Wow, this video touch you deep inside the heart. nothing is impossible, failure is just an experience and life go on..

[leegiat]

 

Hi Weikee,

Yeah, this old lady with all her problems is still learning by reading newspapers with a dictionary.

Hi Veron,

Good. Now to go further. Where is the main door, in the  North East sector, or West? I' m not talking about where the door is facing.

Anyway, good news, you would have your home sweet home next year I assured you.

Till-then, cheers.